Be grateful no matter

Happy Monday! Be grateful for the ups and downs in your life. As you remain grateful despite whatever circumstances you may be going through…you attract and manifest those miracles!. Focus on EXACTLY what you want and how you will feel when you receive it. You will attract the energy that you send out so be sure to stay in your high vibe!
That is why my upcoming community of Feminine Leaders is meant to support women to be in that HIGH VIBE zone so that you can grow positively in your incomes and in your personal developments. Click the link in my bio to book a call or PM me to find out how you can be in my community to be around positive people, create a life of significance, create an income and a lifestyle that you desire and help others develop themselves too! Spread LOVE & RESPECT! #murshidahsaidcoaching #murshidahsaid #loveandrespect #spreadloveadrespect #livingwithloveandrespect #livelifewithloveandrespect #loveandrespectcoach #successcoach #mindsetcoach #feminineleadership #feminineleadershipcommunity #femaleentrepreneurs #womensupportingwomen #womenwhowork #womeninleadership IMG_20200107_000501_847.jpg

Add a comment January 6, 2020

Be kind without asking for a favour back

One of the key values we instill in LOVE & RESPECT in conduct is offering solutions to problems. Often people only find fault in others and do not help or offer solutions instead. I learnt about this during the time when I was down, broke, and was in real need of help to come out of my challenges…and then I was met with 2 types of people :

1. People who knew that I was facing challenges and instead,of helping… did and said things to make my life more difficult

2. People who offered help or said a kind word of encouragement without asking for a return in favour
Having gone through that experience, I told myself that I wanted to be the 2nd type of people that I met during those dark times.

So lets make LOVE & RESPECT a way of life. I am sharing this quote from the Quran as a reminder also to myself…
“Worship God and associate nothing with Him, and show kindness to parents, relatives, orphans, the poor, the near neighbor, the distant neighbor, the companion at your side, the traveler, and those whom your right hands possess. Indeed, God does not like those who are conceited and boastful.” (Quran 4:36)

Have a great weekend everyone ! Screenshot_20200104_234624❤ #murshidahsaidsharing #spreadloveandrespect #loveandrespect #murshidahsaid #livingwithloveandrespect #livelifewithloveandrespect

Add a comment January 5, 2020

Understand. Do not ASSUME

Its important to go down to the ground and find out a particular situation’s problems instead of assuming the cause of the problem. Many times when there are problems, people assume that it is due to something that may not be the right answer. Its best to do research and make an informed decision. One such example is when I talk to people about the refugee living situation in Malaysia and I get many answers assuming their problems without even wanting to attempt to meet and learn directly from the people facing those challenges. Also, these same people complain about others and then say “they should do this” and “that”…and then do not even offer help to those in need.
These attitudes need to change as these do not add value to the world and to the positive development of a community. That is the reason why I am adamant on starting the LEAVE A LEGACY Conscious Business Community globally where conscious business owners with the right set of values come together to add value to others through their businesses…with this too is the Community of Feminine Leaders where women get out of victim and a self sacrificing mindset to that of a Queen of their lives. This LOVE & RESPECT in Action community is way overdue. It has been an intention of ours for many years to help people get out of struggle and working in a negative environment to that of growth with impact. I invite you to come on the journey with us to Spread LOVE & RESPECT around the world. You can PM me to indicate your interest and we will invite you to our upcoming event. #murshidahsaid #spreadloveandrespect #loveandrespect #livingwithloveandrespect #livelifewithloveandrepsct #murshidahsaidcoaching #leavealegacy #feminineleadershipIMG_20200103_135402_932

Add a comment January 3, 2020

Restarting my thoughts again

Hello world ! Its been 4 years since I got in here. I am restarting the blog again..


Add a comment January 3, 2020

Malicious people and how to detect them….

Having been in business and working on many projects involving all kinds of people, I know it is important to work in a good team that you can trust and be authentic. There were occasions when even while doing charity work involves jealousy and gossip. That is why I aim to make sure the team is positive and forward looking and not malicious.

These evil acts of gossip due to envy just destroy every good intentions. Let us make it a habit of not listening to whines and complains about others. If you are unhappy with someone, tell the person himself and give solutions. Also ask yourself, how can I change to make it better.

“Don’t listen to the malicious comments of those friends who, never taking any risks themselves, can only see other people’s failures.” (Paulo Coelho, Eleven Minutes) ‪#‎spreadloveandrespect‬

Add a comment May 12, 2015

Money is not enough

We had an interesting conversation in the taxi this morning going to the airport. Taxi driver used to be a bodyguard for some very wealthy individuals and somehow as usual, our topic of discussion comes back to LOVE & RESPECT. He said on the outside, the people whom he used to protect and be personal guards for are admired and envied and people aim to be like them. What the public do not realise is that the wealthy people he works for are not in peace and always stressed out and unhappy.
I share about the people I meet and many are constantly stressed out and working so hard thinking things will get better when they have more money and “higher” positions or they will be happy if only they have another person in a relationship. Some are willing to get there hurting others along the way, thinking that is success. Of course I know no matter how high their positions are or the bigger the bank account, or how beautiful their partner may be, they still do not have peace.
Zeal Zainuddin attends many seminars and most of the talks he notices sells the idea of getting rich materially all the time. And people STILL think that is the solution to all the problems.
We are grateful to have experienced both sides. We know PEACE and HAPPINESS is not achieved when you have money only. I am sure many would disagree with me though. My message is to show otherwise. Economy may grow but not happiness. “Development” has improved but not humanity. Come with me on this journey. Lets start being aware of what is really going on. Educate and spread the awareness. Join me to SPREAD LOVE & RESPECT. Before that…learn what that REALLY means. ‪#‎spreadloveandrespect‬

Add a comment November 27, 2014

People who complain are not grateful people!

Do you notice how negative, whiny and people who always complain about others, drain your energy? No one wants to be around those people and HATE has not done anything GOOD in this world. Let us NOT be one of those people. EMPOWER, EDIFY, STAY POSITIVE and BE solutions focused. People who always complain are not GRATEFUL people. Remember there is always something to be grateful for. “If you are grateful, I shall certainly give you increase” [Qur’an, 14:7]
“Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.” Oprah Winfrey
#gratitude #spreadloveandrespect

Add a comment October 21, 2014

Stay United !

We know that “UNITY is STRENGTH” and “TOGETHER WE STAND, DIVIDED WE FALL”…and yet many of us in the world today do not practice this. We have become people of blame and accusations. When good things happen, they say its due to them and when bad things happen they start pointing fingers.

This happens at the individual level, between spouses, within families, and organisations. No one wants to stand up for another or discuss problems and go through the challenges together. Instead, even within groups doing good work like charities, there are back biting and instigators.

Look, no one is perfect. Everyone is learning in this world but when we create divisions and labels, we are in fact weakening ourselves. Look at the state of the world today. Look at how many families are still in tact. No one wants to go through the challenges and work through challenges together. People who often give up just because its too hard to deal with problems, will always be dealing with similar problems over and over again throughout their lives. When you see people get back together and mend relationships, REJOICE and do not be suspicious of their intent.
Enough with divisions, labels, titles, and saying who is better than whom. Everyone, lets build bridges. The world is torn apart already for us to be adding more tears. And for Muslims, remember this hadith from our beloved Prophet saw, “Allah is One and likes Unity.” (Hadith Muslim). Stay UNITED!#spreadloveandrespect

Add a comment October 19, 2014

We were in Cambodia!

spread love in cambodia

Add a comment October 19, 2014

So depressing…so much HATE..

It seems like at this point in time we all see a lot of doom and gloom with what is happening in the world today from social media, and from local and international news. Remember that what we focus on EXPANDS. With every challenge and problems we see NOW, we know that things did not just happen overnight. Some things that were mistakes done in the past and thoughts implanted based on anger, hate, greed, etc – are all starting to surface NOW. If not stopped and perpetuated, bigger problems will surface in the future.

This is the time where one must reflect, educate, learn and be aware of what really is happening and how these problems come about. Do not be sucked into further HATE. Start to think as a HUMAN and learn to LOVE. Do not be sucked into labels, labeling others, bullying, picking at other’s faults, judgments. Do onto others the way you want them to be done unto you. Simple. Always think. What if that person was me. What if that was to happen to me.

Stop the HATE from growing bigger. SPREAD THE LOVE AND RESPECT. All LOVE ADVOCATES around the world, you know who you are. Step up to educate, reach out, give awareness, take POSITIVE ACTION. People around the world need to get back to HUMANITY. Start doing things differently. Start focusing on solutions. Start locally. (students of Zeal Zainuddin and I – remember to carry that BALL OF LOVE) Lots of work to be done…#spreadloveandrespect

Add a comment August 17, 2014






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