Be Authentic to Ourselves and Each Other

Screenshot_20200329_135313There are pros and cons to the culture of not wanting to offend people. It is good because people will not say anything nasty directly to one another. It is not good when that turns instead to gossip and talking bad about the person to others behind their backs. I have seen this turn to manipulative tactics in teams, unhealthy office politics, cheating in relationships, being hypocritical, etc.
Can we turn this culture instead to learning to communicate better with each other and learn to speak with LOVE & RESPECT despite differences in opinions or perspectives. Learn to accept that there various views even if you do not agree with them. And still LOVE & RESPECT one another even if you have differences in opinions. Let us be authentic with ourselves and with each other. This will create better relationships, communities and culture. Let us live with LOVE & RESPECT! #murshidahsaid #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #livingwithloveandrespect #livelifewithloveandrespect

Add a comment April 3, 2020

Invest in your personal development

Oftentimes people want free stuff (including education and training). Money is energy and I notice that those who only go for free stuff, do not scale or grow in their mindsets as they are not willing to invest or exchange energetically for something of value in return.

Even in various Whatsapp groups the quality of discussions in the “free” groups as compared to those who invest to join a community differ so much. I am so grateful that I invested in high level communities and there is so much difference in the mindsets of those who give and receive value as opposed to those who only want to take things for free. It also shows how the mindsets of those who can attract money easily differs to those who constantly struggle and complain.

This is the Money Mindset that I have learned so much about the last few years…and I see so much developments in my life within the years. In conjunction with International Women’s Day this March, I am offering to work with those who are serious to change and transform their mindsets around money and transform their money story to attract money easily in their lives. PM me to book a free call to see if you are ready to quit the phrase…”I don’t have the money”… #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidcoaching #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #moneystory #manifestmoney #moneyblocksScreenshot_20200311_002341

Add a comment March 10, 2020

Be around people who lift you higher

Its so important to be around a community of empowering people. The people you surround yourself with are a reflection of your values, incomes, intellect. Be around people who will only lift you higher and encourage you to be the best version of yourself.
I have in my past, been around energy draining people who like to talk down to me and also about others behind their backs. What I notice now is that when I was around those negative people who do not recognize people’s worth and are narcissistic, my income was not scaling up. My impact and helping others was miniscule because the people I was mixing with at that time were not interested to go down to go the ground to solve problems and help those in need.
Until I made a conscious decision to break away from any negative circles…found myself sourcing out a more empowering circle… and I started travelling around the world to be around different mindsets and high vibe people. I focused on getting connected with amazing people who do good, empower others, lift people up, and push me to be the best version on myself while growing my own business and message…..I saw a major shift in my life, my relationships and my incomes.
Be aware of the people you surround yourself with. Your surrounding and your circle of friends reflect who you are too. That is why I am also consciously starting a community of conscious business owners and professionals who aim to do good through their business and career. PM me if you are keen to know how you can be a part of my community. Lets have friends and a circle that live with LOVE & RESPECT. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect

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While at @theleelapalaceudaipur for @ginadevee ‘s Queen ProgrammeFB_IMG_1579740214544

Add a comment February 27, 2020

Leaders Empower

I have met some people who are already in leadership positions putting others down. The people they talk down to or talk down about may be working for them or be their “competitor”. A secure leader does not need to talk down just to show they are in a higher position.
Empower instead of disempowering others. That is how a community develops, grows and excels. So lead with LOVE & RESPECT. That is how you get LOVE & RESPECT! #murshidahsaidcoaching #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #livelifewithloveandrespect #livingwithloveandrespect #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #loveandrespectcoach #leadership #feminineleadership #feminineleadersScreenshot_20200215_111955

Add a comment February 16, 2020

Do not become Crabs in a Bucket

Do not be jealous of others’ successes. Do not put down other people’s dreams. Successful people all had haters and people saying that their business model won’t work, their ideas are unrealistic or some even stop them or create obstacles in order for them to fail in pursuing their goals and dreams.
This “Crabs in a Bucket” phenomenon exists in many communities. The concept that crabs in a bucket will try to escape. If they left each other alone, and let their fellow crabs climb, they’d easily be able to get out of the bucket.
Instead, what happens is as a crab will try to climb out of the bucket, other crabs will pull him down. This makes sure that no matter how hard any of them work – none of them make it out. So everyone stays in status quo, struggling all their lives.
This “if I can’t get it, then you shouldn’t too” mindset has got to go !. A community where LOVE & RESPECT exists encourages the dreamers as they can possibly create breakthroughs for the community.
Let’s reflect on this. In the meantime, have a wonderful weekend filled with LOVE & RESPECT! #murshidahsaidcoaching #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #livingwithloveandrespect #livelifewithloveandrespect #loveandrespectcoach #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespectScreenshot_20200216_015739

Add a comment February 16, 2020

Build relationships first

Be sure to build relationships before forcing your products or service onto others. Especially if you are in a networking event, use the space to build relationships instead of hard selling to strangers who may or may not be interested in your products or services. Through relationships, people will refer and promote you even if they are not your direct customers. Same goes while you are on an online social media platform. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #livingwithloveandrespect #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespectScreenshot_20200205_080001

Add a comment February 6, 2020

Be Clear When Negotiating

When in negotiation, be sure to be clear in your communication. Do not assume that the other party gets it as you do. Ask and clarify to make sure you are both on the same page. Oftentimes, communication gets lost when both parties assume what the other party understands…and then blame each other for not fulfilling something they thought they both agree on. Perspectives differ. Perceptions differ. So ask, clarify and repeat to make sure that what is negotiated is what is agreed. Let’s do business and work with LOVE & RESPECT ! #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #livingwithloveandrespect #dobusinesswithoveandrespectScreenshot_20200131_135238

Add a comment February 3, 2020

Be grateful no matter

Happy Monday! Be grateful for the ups and downs in your life. As you remain grateful despite whatever circumstances you may be going through…you attract and manifest those miracles!. Focus on EXACTLY what you want and how you will feel when you receive it. You will attract the energy that you send out so be sure to stay in your high vibe!
That is why my upcoming community of Feminine Leaders is meant to support women to be in that HIGH VIBE zone so that you can grow positively in your incomes and in your personal developments. Click the link in my bio to book a call or PM me to find out how you can be in my community to be around positive people, create a life of significance, create an income and a lifestyle that you desire and help others develop themselves too! Spread LOVE & RESPECT! #murshidahsaidcoaching #murshidahsaid #loveandrespect #spreadloveadrespect #livingwithloveandrespect #livelifewithloveandrespect #loveandrespectcoach #successcoach #mindsetcoach #feminineleadership #feminineleadershipcommunity #femaleentrepreneurs #womensupportingwomen #womenwhowork #womeninleadership IMG_20200107_000501_847.jpg

Add a comment January 6, 2020

Be kind without asking for a favour back

One of the key values we instill in LOVE & RESPECT in conduct is offering solutions to problems. Often people only find fault in others and do not help or offer solutions instead. I learnt about this during the time when I was down, broke, and was in real need of help to come out of my challenges…and then I was met with 2 types of people :

1. People who knew that I was facing challenges and instead,of helping… did and said things to make my life more difficult

2. People who offered help or said a kind word of encouragement without asking for a return in favour
Having gone through that experience, I told myself that I wanted to be the 2nd type of people that I met during those dark times.

So lets make LOVE & RESPECT a way of life. I am sharing this quote from the Quran as a reminder also to myself…
“Worship God and associate nothing with Him, and show kindness to parents, relatives, orphans, the poor, the near neighbor, the distant neighbor, the companion at your side, the traveler, and those whom your right hands possess. Indeed, God does not like those who are conceited and boastful.” (Quran 4:36)

Have a great weekend everyone ! Screenshot_20200104_234624❤ #murshidahsaidsharing #spreadloveandrespect #loveandrespect #murshidahsaid #livingwithloveandrespect #livelifewithloveandrespect

Add a comment January 5, 2020

Understand. Do not ASSUME

Its important to go down to the ground and find out a particular situation’s problems instead of assuming the cause of the problem. Many times when there are problems, people assume that it is due to something that may not be the right answer. Its best to do research and make an informed decision. One such example is when I talk to people about the refugee living situation in Malaysia and I get many answers assuming their problems without even wanting to attempt to meet and learn directly from the people facing those challenges. Also, these same people complain about others and then say “they should do this” and “that”…and then do not even offer help to those in need.
These attitudes need to change as these do not add value to the world and to the positive development of a community. That is the reason why I am adamant on starting the LEAVE A LEGACY Conscious Business Community globally where conscious business owners with the right set of values come together to add value to others through their businesses…with this too is the Community of Feminine Leaders where women get out of victim and a self sacrificing mindset to that of a Queen of their lives. This LOVE & RESPECT in Action community is way overdue. It has been an intention of ours for many years to help people get out of struggle and working in a negative environment to that of growth with impact. I invite you to come on the journey with us to Spread LOVE & RESPECT around the world. You can PM me to indicate your interest and we will invite you to our upcoming event. #murshidahsaid #spreadloveandrespect #loveandrespect #livingwithloveandrespect #livelifewithloveandrepsct #murshidahsaidcoaching #leavealegacy #feminineleadershipIMG_20200103_135402_932

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