#Personal #Experience #Sharing :
I have had a trainer once walk into my training room (after my participants have left) and openly said to me that I am taking the jobs of other “local” trainers….because well… I am not “local”.
And yes, he is a “Leadership Trainer” to corporations. In a way, he was telling me to “Go Home”. (I will not share the exact words he used or about being authentic to your message…I will reserve that for another post).
I will instead share about mindsets on ABUNDANCE.
I have met foreigners (and some refugees too) who started with nothing and made a pretty decent life in the country they have settled…and I have met some foreigners who even after 5 years still complaining about how the local country does not help them and locals not accepting them.
I have seen and met people who are always suspicious of “foreigners” and saying that they are taking away opportunities from them. And yes…they are not happy or successful either. Oh dear. The way to a person’s success is his/her mindsets, beliefs and Faith and connection with our ALL ABUNDANT ALMIGHTY CREATOR. It is time we start to OPEN OUR MINDS, EYES AND HEARTS to an ABUNDANT mentality instead of scarcity. With a scarcity mindset, you will never be truly RICH, HAPPY, JOYFUL and CREATIVE. AND THAT scarcity mindset is what keeps a person stuck for years. AND create the chaos, wars and fights.
This is not a #justsaying post. It is a post that encourages ACTION. ESPECIALLY NOW, we need a CHANGE in mindsets and cultures in communities.
And trainers…if you are teaching LEADERSHIP and still focused on fear-based mentalities and scarcity in your own lives…it’s time to change to the more FEMININE way of LEADING. Where we believe in Abundance, Collaborations, Inclusivity, and Celebrations. And lots of FUN, LOVE & RESPECT ! #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #murshidahsaidcoaching #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #loveandrespectcoach #thethingsigothroughbuildingmybusiness #loveandrespecttransforms #feminineleadershipcommunity #feminineleaders #leadership #feminineleadership

Add a comment September 30, 2021

Be Kind to Your Family First

 Reflection : I have heard of various refugee stories especially by women who face challenges of not only having to leave their homes because the countries they live in are not secure…but also because there are conflicts within their own families too. Where the people who are supposed to protect them in their own homes are also those who are hurting them.

Also, these stories are not limited to refugees only. I believe a lot of how people lead and treat others begins from how they are raised in their own homes. So please be sure to provide a safe environment first within your own families.

Where people feel safe to speak, discuss, ask and give support instead of living in an environment of condemning, attacking and distrust. Where the homes are hurtful within, people will create hurt without. Hurt people will hurt others. So start with your families first. Create a loving, safe and supportive relationship in your marriage so that you can create that loving supportive environment for your children, parents, siblings, extended families, neighbours and then spillover that LOVE & RESPECT onto others at work, in business, in your communities, in your countries and with others across the world. Simple. Start with yourself and your family. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #murshidahsaidcoaching #loveandrespecttransforms #loveandrespectcoach #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #consciousbusinesscoach #consciousbusiness

Add a comment September 15, 2021


 Tip :
As someone who loves to GIVE and HELP others, you must also GIVE to yourself. The Law of Giving says that the more you Give, you the more you receive. However, many forget to RECEIVE too. For example your health, your relationships, your own finances. Give to yourself means self-care as you cannot pour out of an empty jar. Let’s not be one of those people who resent Giving to others because you feel overwhelmed or used. GIVING is best when it’s joyful and from a place of ABUNDANCE. So take care of yourself, lovelies. Because your big heart needs some LOVE & RESPECT too. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidcoaching #murshidahsaidsharing #leavealegacyconsciousbusinesscommunity #loveandrespectcoach #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #feminineleadershipcommunity #loveandrespecttransforms

Add a comment August 29, 2021

So important to have a healthy money mindset

#Mindset sharing: It’s so important to have a healthy money mindset. I have been told that it is not spiritual to think of money. Ok then. Don’t think of money. But change the way you think of money. I have met several people who say they are spiritual and want to do charity and help people….but say bad things about other organisations as they feel they are more deserved to receive funds. Or organisations fighting amongst each other to get grants. Or those who say “I want to help people but since I don’t have the funds, I cannot help”. This mindset of lack, in fact, makes a person less spiritual…not the money…So BE SPIRITUAL…which means…you see money as a tool. You see POSSIBILITIES in creating money. You see ABUNDANCE because you know our ABUNDANTLY LOVING CREATOR is not about lack and if you connect to SPIRIT, you will be able to create those money and opportunities to create money. So there you go. When you change your thoughts about money, you change the way you see and do life. LOVE & RESPECT. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #consciousbusinesscoach #femiineleadershipcommunity #loveandrespectcoach #murshidahsaidcoaching #sundayvibes #happyweekend #moneymindsetmakeover

Add a comment August 8, 2021

Personal Sharing

Personal sharing : I know its not comfortable. Any sort of change is not easy at first. When I failed in my last business, I was broke for 2 years and I was afraid of taking chances because I thought that would make me lose more money. Only until my back was against the wall where I could not afford to waste any more time (or we would be hungry and homeless), I started to use all my resources to create value for others…and that turned into my initial business. However, only when I got myself to receive support in the form of coaching and get into a high vibe community did I really shift my mind and life around. It definitely did not help to constantly try to do it alone or get free advise from people who do not get me…or have created something new from ground up. Do not waste any more time waiting for things to turn around and try to keep doing things through trial and error. Get supported. Be in a high vibe community. Create an impact. Otherwise you will not be using your God-given gifts to help others and leave a legacy. Then, let us come together to spread LOVE & RESPECT. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #leavealegacyconsciousbusinesscommunity #feminineleadershipcommunity #consciousbusinessowners

Add a comment July 18, 2021

Happiness Tip

Happiness Tip :

Remember all the GOOD that others have done for you. Forget about all the GOOD you have done for others. That way, you have fewer expectations and have more GRATITUDE. Also, remember to always acknowledge the people who do GOOD to you. Simple, right. Make that a habit. Spread LOVE & RESPECT. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #murshidahsaidcoaching #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #leavealegacyconsciousbusinesscommunity #feminineleadershipcommunity #consciousbusiness #consciousbusinesscoach

Add a comment June 30, 2021

Personal Perspective

Personal Perspective:

Birthday gifts (in the form of “things”) are optional. Gifts can come in many other ways like time together, a prayer, a connection, some good words, gestures amongst others…are all important gifts too. We are so conditioned to give or receive “stuff” on birthdays that even the quality of relationships is judged based on how “expensive” a certain present is given. Let us not bring up our children to put a value on a relationship based on how expensive a gift a person gives to another. Bring up your children also as people who do not expect gifts and handouts from others as a form of how another person values them. I know gift-giving is a love language. But let’s educate ourselves and our future generation that it does not only represent the value of the relationship. Let’s live with LOVE & RESPECT. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #mondaymotivation #loveandrespectcoach #murshidahsaidcoaching

Add a comment June 20, 2021

Personal reflection post:

Looking back at the last 4 years as to how I overcame many challenges and got breakthroughs in my personal and business life…it was because I invested in training, and especially in coaching. Many people (including myself in the past) who kept plateauing or facing constant financial challenges do not take time to reflect or refuse support that would help them grow or get a breakthrough. Whenever you will feel stuck or facing challenges, that is the time to find a way to invest in your own growth and learning. And most importantly, is to APPLY the learning and coaching. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #murshidahsaidcoaching #loveandrespect #loveandrespecttransforms #spreadloveandrespect #loveandrespectcoach

Add a comment June 14, 2021

HONEST post :

Having coached, trained and mentored professionals, new and seasoned business owners, corporate executives, leaders, refugees, students, low-income single mothers, etc…I noticed a certain type of people who rise faster, thrive, and start to lead happier and abundant lives.
While there are some who just remain in their “negative” situations for years….and still complaining about the same problems over and over again. These are just a few on the list :
👉 The people who emerge faster to resolve their lives and create new successful and happier situations follow a no excuses policy.
👉They are also people who do not waste their time analysing why they fail.
👉 They are fast in finding solutions instead.
👉They are always in a celebratory mood even for small successes and celebrate other people’s successes instead of focusing on spreading gossip and anger.
👉They hardly complain. I know some of them going through so many challenges yet they keep saying “Alhamdulillah” (blessings from the Almighty).
👉They make prayers as the FIRST resort.
👉They stay in a community that is elevating and growing them.
👉They do not see themselves as lesser than those who achieve more (instead they are happy for other people’s successes).
👉They are always focused on adding value to others (even when they do not have much).
👉They speak their Truth with LOVE & RESPECT. Their YES is YES and their NO is NO.
👉They forgive easily and live in the NOW (not in the past nor the future).
👉That is WHY I get excited to coach such men and women who are on that path of creating good for themselves and for the world. That lights me up when I see high vibe and positive people going for dreams and goals no matter what because they know they can create GOOD and positivity in the world. Let’s SPREAD LOVE & RESPECT ! #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidcoaching #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespectcoach #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #loveandrespecttransforms #leavealegacy #leavealegacyconsciousbusinesscommunity #feminineleaders #feminineleadershipcommunity #consciousbusinessowners

Add a comment June 6, 2021

ATTITUDE of a Conscious person.

ATTITUDE of a Conscious person.

If you really want to help the poor and marginalised groups, support their businesses and do not bargain with them. If you would like to eliminate poverty, then give fair wages for the same amount of work done despite where they are from, what their gender is, and what their “race” is. (I put race in inverted commas because its a man-made definition).
If you really believe in doing good then support ONLY businesses that actually do good for the people and the planet. If you really want equality, then practice equality. If you want people to pay you well and increase your income growth, then you need to be responsible when paying your suppliers and bills. So there. That’s how you can create a much better world for yourself and others. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #consciousbusiness #consciousbusinessowners #livingwithloveandrespect #livelifewithloveandrespect

Add a comment June 1, 2021






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