Collaborate NOT Compete

Impact and results work best when we collaborate rather than work separately or in competition with one another.
🎯 Zeal Zainuddin and I have been addressing this topic 10 years ago about how organisations, people, institutions must work together for a common purpose of DOING GOOD for the world instead of seeing one another as a threat all the time.
🎯 The purpose of business and life is for creating something that can solve problems in the world. Its time for people to start GETTING THIS !
OUR collaboration with people, organisations and societies have created so much GOOD in a much faster period of time. Jobs are created, medical care given, groceries given to those who cannot afford them, and some other issues resolved when our networks, tribes, and communities ALL come together with a common intention to do GOOD.
🎯 Solutions are created faster when collaboration happens rather than competition or when people are fighting over scraps.
Let us create a world where those who intend to do GOOD and Create GOOD around the world come together. Leave no room for bullies, oppressors, abusers to come into our space. ONLY LOVE & RESPECT.
Photo : Love & Respect Transforms is proud to collaborate with Philandure, Al-Hasan Volunteer Network, Min Qalby Foundation, Faith Free market, niyat edutainment and Pasago for the Ramadan Food Basket Project. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #murshidahsaidcoaching #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #consciousbusinessowners #loveandrespectcoach

Add a comment April 14, 2021

Be Humble. Do not put yourself down.

Being humble does not mean that you put yourself down constantly. Humility in fact makes you more confident in your authentic self. Remember that your wealth, your status, your beauty, your title, your fancy work titles do not define you. Being humble too means getting in touch with your spiritual connection to the Almighty knowing that all these external things do not make you YOU. So get connected with SPIRIT. Know your REAL YOU and you will be in peace, in gratitude, in LOVE & joy..and you do not need to either boast to others or be constantly saying you are not good enough. Makes it easier for yourself too to live in LOVE & RESPECT. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidcoaching #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespecttransforms #loveandrespectcoach #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect

Add a comment March 29, 2021

Do not brainwash her to think like a Princess

Train your daughters to be the Queen in their lives…and not be a Princess that needs to be saved, given stuff, or things before she can thrive. ( ah yes! boys too can be raised as “princesses”).
These are examples of the “princess” that stay with the person into their adulthood… They are those who say… “I tried everything. nothing works!”. “Because of the pandemic, the economy, the government, the husband/wife/ the other people/fill in the blanks…that is why I cannot succeed”…” I need this or else I cannot”…”if only someone gives me_______, then I can….” and also tantrum throwing when they don’t have their way, or staying stuck and waiting without looking for solutions.
I do my best to instill the values of LOVE & RESPECT in my daughter’s life and not be easily manipulated by emotional vampires, and by those who have no tolerance for others different from them. So no raising your daughters and sons to be “princessy”. Let us teach our children and the next generation to be physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually resilient instead. Guide them to lead with LOVE & RESPECT. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #livewithloveandrespect #livingwithloveandrespect

Add a comment February 22, 2021

Collaborate instead of Compete

When doing GOOD or making your work or business a channel for GOOD…work towards collaboration instead of competition. It has been too long where we divide ourselves into so many different “groups” that we end up creating divisions. Best that we SUPPORT one another instead of making it difficult for each other to create GOOD through our businesses. (Pictures with our amazing communities like Feminine Leadership, Refugee Community Supporters and Leave a Legacy) #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #happyweekend #consciousbusinessowners #socialmpactinvestors

Add a comment February 8, 2021

Ever been treated like a stereotype?

Have you ever felt that you have been treated as a stereotype ? For your race, gender, religion, your culture, your job, your income, your family, your name, where you come from etc etc etc… All those stereotypes or judgements on you that you experienced happened because some people out there who do not know you enough judged you based on what they think they know about you. If you had felt hurt or offended…GOOD. Do not EVER do that to others as well. And if you feel that you are stereotyping a group of people, immediately put a new perspective into your mind. Get to know or understand the person or just know that what some one who did something bad does not reflect his whole family or community. When each of us practice this belief, we will begin to have more LOVE & RESPECT in this world. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #spreadloveandrespect #loveandrespect #loveandrespectcoach #livingwithloveandrespect

Add a comment January 18, 2021

The Power in the Law of Giving

One of the ways to improve your relationship is by doing charity together. For me personally, I found how powerful the Law of Giving is in all areas of my life. When Zeal Zainuddin and I started to incorporate “Giving Weekends” in our family (we started with visiting orphanages instead of taking our then toddler daughter to the mall every weekend)…our relationship improved.
So when my clients ask me to help them to improve their communication and relationship in their marriage, one of the key activities I get them to do is to go do active CHARITY together. Active Giving is not dropping money in a box. Its to actually get a project done together to help a certain person or group of people. When you find a higher purpose TOGETHER in your marriage, a lot of your other “problems” become small or just disappear. Well, that is just how great THE LAW OF GIVING is in the Universe. So go improve your marriage. Spread LOVE & RESPECT TOGETHER. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #happyweekend #livingwithloveandrespect

Add a comment January 11, 2021


LOVE is not just an emotion. It is a VALUE. When you have LOVE within yourself, it manifests itself through :

  • Your relationships
  • How you conduct business
  • How you lead
  • How you view money
  • How you can see opportunities
  • How you create opportunities and be creative
  • How you parent
  • How you treat yourself and others
  • What you manifest….
    and LOTS more…
    LOVE to me is recommended to be paired with RESPECT. Without RESPECT, there will be no structure. So do you get it as to why I have been talking and sharing about LOVE & RESPECT for some 10 years now? These are values that HAVE to be instilled in all areas of your life. So come join this journey with me to SPREAD LOVE & RESPECT ! Aaannddd….Lets us wish the Happiest of Birthdays to Zeal Zainuddin !!! 🎂🎂#murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect

Add a comment December 31, 2020

The Law of Cause & Effect

Throughout history, there are effects of evil leadership and oppressions that lead to negative effects on the person leading, the society he lives behind and also his decendents. Some we may even get to witness in our lifetimes where you will see the effect of evil and oppressive leadership. You will get back what you give. So be AWARE to NOT be on the side of injustice even if it means keeping quiet when you see evil or oppression or bullying in front of you.

This year Zeal Zainuddin and I have made a commitment to NOT allow people to bully us OR OTHERS as we continue our mission to SPREAD LOVE & RESPECT. No more bullying the kind and giving people. NO MORE taking advantage of those who do good work or making it difficult for them to reach out and help. No more allowing abuse to happen in front of us or within our societies. The law of GIVING & RECEIVING is powerful. Kifarah is real. The Law of CAUSE and EFFECT is within the LAW of this Universe. So let’s all come together…around the world and transform this life to be filled with LOVE & RESPECT. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #internationalcoach #consciousbusiness #consciousbusinessowners

Add a comment December 6, 2020

Lessons from a Movie

One of my favourite movies is Rise of the Planet of the Apes. I watched it more than 3 times. Love the lessons in leadership, power of teams, community building, staying resilient, THE WHY, family, protecting the weak…and so much more! Have you seen it ? What were your learnings from it ? #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect

Add a comment November 29, 2020

When you have communication, you have LOVE & RESPECT

In any relationship, communication is key. Communication as in two way. Not talking at each other. Not one person talking and the other person not having a say. Not one person looking to communicate while another is avoiding the connection. This is one of the basics of LOVE & RESPECT. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidcoaching #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #livelifewithloveandrespect #communication

Add a comment October 14, 2020






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