Ever been treated like a stereotype?

Have you ever felt that you have been treated as a stereotype ? For your race, gender, religion, your culture, your job, your income, your family, your name, where you come from etc etc etc… All those stereotypes or judgements on you that you experienced happened because some people out there who do not know you enough judged you based on what they think they know about you. If you had felt hurt or offended…GOOD. Do not EVER do that to others as well. And if you feel that you are stereotyping a group of people, immediately put a new perspective into your mind. Get to know or understand the person or just know that what some one who did something bad does not reflect his whole family or community. When each of us practice this belief, we will begin to have more LOVE & RESPECT in this world. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #spreadloveandrespect #loveandrespect #loveandrespectcoach #livingwithloveandrespect

Add a comment January 18, 2021

The Power in the Law of Giving

One of the ways to improve your relationship is by doing charity together. For me personally, I found how powerful the Law of Giving is in all areas of my life. When Zeal Zainuddin and I started to incorporate “Giving Weekends” in our family (we started with visiting orphanages instead of taking our then toddler daughter to the mall every weekend)…our relationship improved.
So when my clients ask me to help them to improve their communication and relationship in their marriage, one of the key activities I get them to do is to go do active CHARITY together. Active Giving is not dropping money in a box. Its to actually get a project done together to help a certain person or group of people. When you find a higher purpose TOGETHER in your marriage, a lot of your other “problems” become small or just disappear. Well, that is just how great THE LAW OF GIVING is in the Universe. So go improve your marriage. Spread LOVE & RESPECT TOGETHER. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #happyweekend #livingwithloveandrespect

Add a comment January 11, 2021


LOVE is not just an emotion. It is a VALUE. When you have LOVE within yourself, it manifests itself through :

  • Your relationships
  • How you conduct business
  • How you lead
  • How you view money
  • How you can see opportunities
  • How you create opportunities and be creative
  • How you parent
  • How you treat yourself and others
  • What you manifest….
    and LOTS more…
    LOVE to me is recommended to be paired with RESPECT. Without RESPECT, there will be no structure. So do you get it as to why I have been talking and sharing about LOVE & RESPECT for some 10 years now? These are values that HAVE to be instilled in all areas of your life. So come join this journey with me to SPREAD LOVE & RESPECT ! Aaannddd….Lets us wish the Happiest of Birthdays to Zeal Zainuddin !!! 🎂🎂#murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect

Add a comment December 31, 2020

The Law of Cause & Effect

Throughout history, there are effects of evil leadership and oppressions that lead to negative effects on the person leading, the society he lives behind and also his decendents. Some we may even get to witness in our lifetimes where you will see the effect of evil and oppressive leadership. You will get back what you give. So be AWARE to NOT be on the side of injustice even if it means keeping quiet when you see evil or oppression or bullying in front of you.

This year Zeal Zainuddin and I have made a commitment to NOT allow people to bully us OR OTHERS as we continue our mission to SPREAD LOVE & RESPECT. No more bullying the kind and giving people. NO MORE taking advantage of those who do good work or making it difficult for them to reach out and help. No more allowing abuse to happen in front of us or within our societies. The law of GIVING & RECEIVING is powerful. Kifarah is real. The Law of CAUSE and EFFECT is within the LAW of this Universe. So let’s all come together…around the world and transform this life to be filled with LOVE & RESPECT. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #internationalcoach #consciousbusiness #consciousbusinessowners

Add a comment December 6, 2020

Lessons from a Movie

One of my favourite movies is Rise of the Planet of the Apes. I watched it more than 3 times. Love the lessons in leadership, power of teams, community building, staying resilient, THE WHY, family, protecting the weak…and so much more! Have you seen it ? What were your learnings from it ? #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect

Add a comment November 29, 2020

When you have communication, you have LOVE & RESPECT

In any relationship, communication is key. Communication as in two way. Not talking at each other. Not one person talking and the other person not having a say. Not one person looking to communicate while another is avoiding the connection. This is one of the basics of LOVE & RESPECT. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidcoaching #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #livelifewithloveandrespect #communication

Add a comment October 14, 2020

Purpose Beyond Profit

I love this quote : “The brands that will thrive in the coming years are the ones that have a purpose bey

ond profit.” (Richard Branson)
And with what is happening now in the world now in 2020, as we all go on “reboot”…this is the time we must get better systems, install and create more sustainable and thriving environments and let of past beliefs that have been creating chaos and hurts in this world. Businesses, organisations, communities, families even must work towards Purpose-Driven goals instead of the short term “get as much for myself as much as possible” mindsets.
It starts with our very own Wealth Consciousness and beliefs in order for this new normal to be instilled. So go get good in your beliefs around Money, Wealth and Abundance. Its time to transform your beliefs and know that there are so much more GOOD and Opportunities in the world. That is how you can live your lives with LOVE & RESPECT! #murshidahsaid #loveandrespectcoach #spreadloveandrespect #loveandrespect #purpose #leavealegacy #leavealegacyconsciousbusinesscommunity #feminineleadershipcommunity #bossbabes #feminineleaders

Add a comment September 24, 2020

On Self Image

Self Image is defined as what you think and feel about yourself.
If you have a healthy self image of yourself, you feel good about your own self worth.

Oftentimes, people who feel lowly about themselves will have low self esteem and self worth…and this affects all areas of their lives – their health, their physical image, their mental state, their social interactions with others, their emotional state and even their spiritual state.

In business, this comes up through undercharging, not feeling good enough to sell or market their own business or services without using another anchor (like a person or another brand other than their own)…having fear in being visible to share about their work….or even using sales techniques that are manipulative…because the business owner feels he/she is not good enough to attract customers through their own great products, services…. or it just being a great business.

It makes so much difference when the business owner or the professional has a healthy self image. She will not have fear of sharing about her work or products because they are also a reflection of her own self image. How powerful is that ! So let us all work on developing ourselves personally and on our self image. Your personal growth will grow your business, your career, your profession and your incomes.

LOVE & RESPECT yourself so that you can SPREAD that LOVE & RESPECT to others. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreandloveandrespect #loveandrespectinbusiness #consciousbusinessowners #feminineleaders #bossbabes #leavealegacy

Add a comment August 25, 2020

The outer world and the inner world

The Law of Consciousness states that our outer world is a reflection of our inner world.

Oftentimes, people get upset, angry, depressed, or afraid with certain things they perceive in their outer world. In order for you to work on your perceptions and perspectives in what you experience in life, it is critical to work on your inner world. So focus on how you can shift that life experience to something more positive and has meaning by working on your mindset, beliefs, emotional management, and spiritual strength. All these inner work with reflect in your physical world and how you live your life.

What helps too is when you be part of a community that empowers and gets you out of the norm that you desire to get out…and that for sure will be uncomfortable and not easy. But it makes so much difference when you have that community support to grow you and elevate you. I encourage you to get to know mine. I encourage you too to build your own. So let’s connect with me via DM or book here https://176838.com/leavealegacy/s/DiscoveryCallForm?fbclid=IwAR3Lb1WBZTLwCTfz3EOSie4DGGHlHvZK0nohgECA8PcwJaSU0YqwG9RDw94

Author Roy T. Bennett says, “The outer world is a reflection of the inner world. Other people’s perception of you is a reflection of them. Your response to them is an awareness of you.”

When you live your life with LOVE & RESPECT, you get to create the world you desire. #murshidahsaidcoaching #murshidahsaidsharing #murshidahsaid #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #leavealegacyconsciousbusinesscommunity #feminineleadershipcommunity #feminineleaders #consciousbusinessownersScreenshot_20200805_080449

Add a comment August 5, 2020

On Entitlement

“Entitlement” means “believing oneself to be inherently deserving of privileges or special treatment.” Often because of status, race, religion, gender, family background, etc.

This mindset of entitlement often makes a person in fact always in the mindset of “victim” or “princessy”, and this in fact weakens a person and never gets him/her to true success. An empowered person will go for their own goals and craft their own paths while taking actions on their own without expecting handouts or “grants” or gifts. So often I hear people say “if only I have money…then I will…”, or “I wish someone would give me________ so I can succeed” or “so and so never gives me_______, that’s why I cannot succeed” or “do they know who my father is…that is why I deserve to get …..” The feeling of entitlement in fact will ALWAYS make you feel insecure and inadequate and you will ALWAYS be a Victim. And you will feel without that name, title, family, race, husband, etc…..you will in fact be NOTHING. How dis-empowering!

So let us not be people who feel we should always get something more than others just because we feel entitled. So craft your own paths. Create your own money. Increase your own value by adding value to others. GIVE and you will RECEIVE. Live your life with LOVE & RESPECT instead of ENTITLEMENT. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #empowerment #feminineleader


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