When you have communication, you have LOVE & RESPECT

In any relationship, communication is key. Communication as in two way. Not talking at each other. Not one person talking and the other person not having a say. Not one person looking to communicate while another is avoiding the connection. This is one of the basics of LOVE & RESPECT. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidcoaching #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #livelifewithloveandrespect #communication

Add a comment October 14, 2020

Purpose Beyond Profit

I love this quote : “The brands that will thrive in the coming years are the ones that have a purpose bey

ond profit.” (Richard Branson)
And with what is happening now in the world now in 2020, as we all go on “reboot”…this is the time we must get better systems, install and create more sustainable and thriving environments and let of past beliefs that have been creating chaos and hurts in this world. Businesses, organisations, communities, families even must work towards Purpose-Driven goals instead of the short term “get as much for myself as much as possible” mindsets.
It starts with our very own Wealth Consciousness and beliefs in order for this new normal to be instilled. So go get good in your beliefs around Money, Wealth and Abundance. Its time to transform your beliefs and know that there are so much more GOOD and Opportunities in the world. That is how you can live your lives with LOVE & RESPECT! #murshidahsaid #loveandrespectcoach #spreadloveandrespect #loveandrespect #purpose #leavealegacy #leavealegacyconsciousbusinesscommunity #feminineleadershipcommunity #bossbabes #feminineleaders

Add a comment September 24, 2020

On Self Image

Self Image is defined as what you think and feel about yourself.
If you have a healthy self image of yourself, you feel good about your own self worth.

Oftentimes, people who feel lowly about themselves will have low self esteem and self worth…and this affects all areas of their lives – their health, their physical image, their mental state, their social interactions with others, their emotional state and even their spiritual state.

In business, this comes up through undercharging, not feeling good enough to sell or market their own business or services without using another anchor (like a person or another brand other than their own)…having fear in being visible to share about their work….or even using sales techniques that are manipulative…because the business owner feels he/she is not good enough to attract customers through their own great products, services…. or it just being a great business.

It makes so much difference when the business owner or the professional has a healthy self image. She will not have fear of sharing about her work or products because they are also a reflection of her own self image. How powerful is that ! So let us all work on developing ourselves personally and on our self image. Your personal growth will grow your business, your career, your profession and your incomes.

LOVE & RESPECT yourself so that you can SPREAD that LOVE & RESPECT to others. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreandloveandrespect #loveandrespectinbusiness #consciousbusinessowners #feminineleaders #bossbabes #leavealegacy

Add a comment August 25, 2020

The outer world and the inner world

The Law of Consciousness states that our outer world is a reflection of our inner world.

Oftentimes, people get upset, angry, depressed, or afraid with certain things they perceive in their outer world. In order for you to work on your perceptions and perspectives in what you experience in life, it is critical to work on your inner world. So focus on how you can shift that life experience to something more positive and has meaning by working on your mindset, beliefs, emotional management, and spiritual strength. All these inner work with reflect in your physical world and how you live your life.

What helps too is when you be part of a community that empowers and gets you out of the norm that you desire to get out…and that for sure will be uncomfortable and not easy. But it makes so much difference when you have that community support to grow you and elevate you. I encourage you to get to know mine. I encourage you too to build your own. So let’s connect with me via DM or book here https://176838.com/leavealegacy/s/DiscoveryCallForm?fbclid=IwAR3Lb1WBZTLwCTfz3EOSie4DGGHlHvZK0nohgECA8PcwJaSU0YqwG9RDw94

Author Roy T. Bennett says, “The outer world is a reflection of the inner world. Other people’s perception of you is a reflection of them. Your response to them is an awareness of you.”

When you live your life with LOVE & RESPECT, you get to create the world you desire. #murshidahsaidcoaching #murshidahsaidsharing #murshidahsaid #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #leavealegacyconsciousbusinesscommunity #feminineleadershipcommunity #feminineleaders #consciousbusinessownersScreenshot_20200805_080449

Add a comment August 5, 2020

On Entitlement

“Entitlement” means “believing oneself to be inherently deserving of privileges or special treatment.” Often because of status, race, religion, gender, family background, etc.

This mindset of entitlement often makes a person in fact always in the mindset of “victim” or “princessy”, and this in fact weakens a person and never gets him/her to true success. An empowered person will go for their own goals and craft their own paths while taking actions on their own without expecting handouts or “grants” or gifts. So often I hear people say “if only I have money…then I will…”, or “I wish someone would give me________ so I can succeed” or “so and so never gives me_______, that’s why I cannot succeed” or “do they know who my father is…that is why I deserve to get …..” The feeling of entitlement in fact will ALWAYS make you feel insecure and inadequate and you will ALWAYS be a Victim. And you will feel without that name, title, family, race, husband, etc…..you will in fact be NOTHING. How dis-empowering!

So let us not be people who feel we should always get something more than others just because we feel entitled. So craft your own paths. Create your own money. Increase your own value by adding value to others. GIVE and you will RECEIVE. Live your life with LOVE & RESPECT instead of ENTITLEMENT. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #empowerment #feminineleader


Add a comment July 21, 2020

So sad to see you drive a Kancil.

I remember someone once told me back in 2007,”I feel sad when I see such a nice and hardworking couple like you drive a Kancil”. I remember too being taken aback by the comment. The car we drove was a small rented one that time. It got us to places like Penang, Melaka, Trengganu, Kelantan, Johor or whenever I had a training job. We were so happy and the last thing I thought at that time was that it was not good enough. It was perfect for a small family like ours and suited our lifestyle and budget. I remember also since the RM2 to RM20,000 fiasco back in 2006, when we were scaling up our lifestyle and growing our training and speaking business from scratch,…that we were not in lack and everything felt sufficient. So when someone said that they feel sad to see us drive such a pathetic looking sized car, I also told myself at that time to not judge people based on what I see on the outside. True enough over the years, I have met people who live so lavishly and yet just complain of the lack of money all the time…. and I have met “very simple looking” aunties who do not hesitate to give thousands of dollars when they find out about a poor person in need. Let us also learn to refrain from giving unsolicited comments on things we do not fully understand about other people based on our own perspectives. Let’s respect one another. That is how we can all live with LOVE & RESPECT. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #murshidahsaidcoaching #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespectIMG_20200712_072827_392

Add a comment July 11, 2020


When I work with professionals, business owners, corporate executives and even those from marginalised communities, I notice those who often succeed better and achieve their desired goals faster than others. They are the once who do not make excuses, complain about lack and expect others to give to them. They do not use excuses like “if only I had more money then I can…” or “I would love to but I don’t have the money”, or “I cannot go to the training because its too far…” I have noticed that there are some from the marginalised communities even find ways to raise funds for enough transport money to attend a class and do not make excuses. They learn and use the knowledge to apply and make consistent changes in their lives instead of bringing up all the reasons and obstacles of why they cannot. That I see the difference between those who will succeed and those who remain stuck in their lives. Lets live our lives with LOVE & RESPECT instead of making excuses of why we can’t. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #spreadloveandrespect #loveandrespectScreenshot_20200706_231447



Add a comment July 11, 2020

Use inherited money to Spread Love & Respect

Screenshot_20200614_170350Let’s talk Money inheritance and family. So often family members fight over money over the property or the material wealth left by a deceased family member. For those who have a clear will and when everyone accepts the final distribution according to the law (whether its religion based or not), then there will not be squabbles. But when siblings or relatives, or family members fight over the money that they think belong to them, that is where a lot of hurt, disharmony and resentment result.

So let’s rethink how we view money left by a deceased. If that money was not built by you and you receive it as an inheritance…and you are of sane mind, able, and an adult…use the money to bless those who are more in need. That money is not yours and not from your own efforts…but a responsibility instead. Spread that wealth and mention the blessings to be given to the person who built it and left it. It was that person’s legacy. So many people forget that inherited money is not from their own efforts or energy…and they think its theirs. This is also due to poor money beliefs, and they think that they cannot create or earn the money on their own otherwise.

That’s why having healthy Money Beliefs can create a Healthy and Happier life and relationships. Use inherited money to Spread Love & Respect and pray for the person who left that money to be used for Good and to add value to others. Do not fight over it and destroy relationships and the blessings of the wealth left is lost. We are on reboot now. So this is the time to instill new positive beliefs, habits and culture in your life. Go live your life with LOVE & RESPECT. #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #livewithloveandrespect

Add a comment June 16, 2020

Be Authentic to Ourselves and Each Other

Screenshot_20200329_135313There are pros and cons to the culture of not wanting to offend people. It is good because people will not say anything nasty directly to one another. It is not good when that turns instead to gossip and talking bad about the person to others behind their backs. I have seen this turn to manipulative tactics in teams, unhealthy office politics, cheating in relationships, being hypocritical, etc.
Can we turn this culture instead to learning to communicate better with each other and learn to speak with LOVE & RESPECT despite differences in opinions or perspectives. Learn to accept that there various views even if you do not agree with them. And still LOVE & RESPECT one another even if you have differences in opinions. Let us be authentic with ourselves and with each other. This will create better relationships, communities and culture. Let us live with LOVE & RESPECT! #murshidahsaid #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #livingwithloveandrespect #livelifewithloveandrespect

Add a comment April 3, 2020

Invest in your personal development

Oftentimes people want free stuff (including education and training). Money is energy and I notice that those who only go for free stuff, do not scale or grow in their mindsets as they are not willing to invest or exchange energetically for something of value in return.

Even in various Whatsapp groups the quality of discussions in the “free” groups as compared to those who invest to join a community differ so much. I am so grateful that I invested in high level communities and there is so much difference in the mindsets of those who give and receive value as opposed to those who only want to take things for free. It also shows how the mindsets of those who can attract money easily differs to those who constantly struggle and complain.

This is the Money Mindset that I have learned so much about the last few years…and I see so much developments in my life within the years. In conjunction with International Women’s Day this March, I am offering to work with those who are serious to change and transform their mindsets around money and transform their money story to attract money easily in their lives. PM me to book a free call to see if you are ready to quit the phrase…”I don’t have the money”… #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidcoaching #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #moneystory #manifestmoney #moneyblocksScreenshot_20200311_002341

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