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#Personal #Experience #Sharing :
I have had a trainer once walk into my training room (after my participants have left) and openly said to me that I am taking the jobs of other “local” trainers….because well… I am not “local”.
And yes, he is a “Leadership Trainer” to corporations. In a way, he was telling me to “Go Home”. (I will not share the exact words he used or about being authentic to your message…I will reserve that for another post).
I will instead share about mindsets on ABUNDANCE.
I have met foreigners (and some refugees too) who started with nothing and made a pretty decent life in the country they have settled…and I have met some foreigners who even after 5 years still complaining about how the local country does not help them and locals not accepting them.
I have seen and met people who are always suspicious of “foreigners” and saying that they are taking away opportunities from them. And yes…they are not happy or successful either. Oh dear. The way to a person’s success is his/her mindsets, beliefs and Faith and connection with our ALL ABUNDANT ALMIGHTY CREATOR. It is time we start to OPEN OUR MINDS, EYES AND HEARTS to an ABUNDANT mentality instead of scarcity. With a scarcity mindset, you will never be truly RICH, HAPPY, JOYFUL and CREATIVE. AND THAT scarcity mindset is what keeps a person stuck for years. AND create the chaos, wars and fights.
This is not a #justsaying post. It is a post that encourages ACTION. ESPECIALLY NOW, we need a CHANGE in mindsets and cultures in communities.
And trainers…if you are teaching LEADERSHIP and still focused on fear-based mentalities and scarcity in your own lives…it’s time to change to the more FEMININE way of LEADING. Where we believe in Abundance, Collaborations, Inclusivity, and Celebrations. And lots of FUN, LOVE & RESPECT ! #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #murshidahsaidcoaching #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #loveandrespectcoach #thethingsigothroughbuildingmybusiness #loveandrespecttransforms #feminineleadershipcommunity #feminineleaders #leadership #feminineleadership

Add a comment September 30, 2021

Be Kind to Your Family First

 Reflection : I have heard of various refugee stories especially by women who face challenges of not only having to leave their homes because the countries they live in are not secure…but also because there are conflicts within their own families too. Where the people who are supposed to protect them in their own homes are also those who are hurting them.

Also, these stories are not limited to refugees only. I believe a lot of how people lead and treat others begins from how they are raised in their own homes. So please be sure to provide a safe environment first within your own families.

Where people feel safe to speak, discuss, ask and give support instead of living in an environment of condemning, attacking and distrust. Where the homes are hurtful within, people will create hurt without. Hurt people will hurt others. So start with your families first. Create a loving, safe and supportive relationship in your marriage so that you can create that loving supportive environment for your children, parents, siblings, extended families, neighbours and then spillover that LOVE & RESPECT onto others at work, in business, in your communities, in your countries and with others across the world. Simple. Start with yourself and your family. #murshidahsaid #murshidahsaidsharing #murshidahsaidcoaching #loveandrespecttransforms #loveandrespectcoach #loveandrespect #spreadloveandrespect #consciousbusinesscoach #consciousbusiness

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