Teach the LAW OF ABUNDANCE, not the LAW OF SCARCITY

Interesting that I learned about the Law of Scarcity in Economics and not the Law of Abundance. Law of Scarcity and the scarcity mindset has a tendency to create unhealthy competition, jealousy, wanting to beat others in all areas of life – personal and business. (You know…that “kiasu” mentality). Economic focus should be on the Law of Abundance – collaboration, creativity, having a giving attitude and LOVE & RESPECT. That is when sustainability happens, poverty reduced and the value of money equitable throughout the world. In the meantime, make sure our kids know the importance of values and mindsets that generate hope and creativity, adding value instead of fear. What they learn in books may not be relevant to their success in life. Parents be educated. Teachers watch the values you instill in your students. Let us all develop ABUNDANCE mindsets. ‪#‎spreadloveandrespect‬

Add a comment July 22, 2013

You have got to FEEL before you speak!

We all know that words have energy and we must choose our words wisely when we speak, write or text. How we feel affects our choice of words. The words then come out in our speech and in writing. We are often told to “think” before saying or writing something. However, I would like to urge each and everyone of us to FEEL first. If you FEEL hatred and anger, these affect your thoughts and the words you use comes out through your speech and in your writing. Readers and people listening can FEEL that vibe. Worse if they start internalising those negative words and those energies remain in their hearts too. So…before speaking or writing, clear your hearts first. Focus on solutions. Ingrain LOVE. Find ways to release those hurts before you spread them out to others. If its too difficult, you can start by saying LOVING words. Reading and speaking words filled with positivity and LOVE can also in turn influence your emotions. OK…now you can speak and write! Jumaat Mubarak. Have a great Friday evening. Spread LOVE & RESPECT! #spreadloveandrespect #murshidahsaid

Add a comment July 12, 2013

Who is your customer ?

“The world is not interested in what we do for a living. What they are interested in is what we have to offer freely – hope, strength, love and the power to make a difference!” (Sasha Azevedo)…I had a wonderful meeting with a successful entrepreneur, who has many years of life and business experience and who I will be collaborating with. (God Willing). We had such a great conversation on our life purpose…why we are entrepreneurs and doing the work that we do ? (in whatever areas). Your work is to generate and create wealth, and doing something significant with the wealth to affect others so they in turn can create their own wealth and impact others. That is what business is all about. Who is our customer ? We all answer to ONE customer and that is God. Everyone else we deal with are our partners and we are all accountable to God. We are subjected to the Laws of the Universe. Even if people do not know or see the intentions, or break the human laws, everything is still subjected to the Laws of the Universe. When we leave this Earth, what is the legacy we leave behind. When we meet our Maker, what deeds have we done with the life that we have been given. What an awesome meeting. Go spread LOVE & RESPECT !

Add a comment April 11, 2013

Love Your Body !

The body is a tool given to you in your life to fulfill a purpose. Take good care of your gift. Respect it, treat it well and do not criticise it or tell yourself and others how unattractive it is. Your body is on loan to use while your soul is occupying it. Do good with it. Use your hands, eyes, ears and mouth to add value to others. LOVE & RESPECT!

Add a comment March 15, 2013

Power of Positive Parenting

I spoke about the power of positive parenting and how that affects the person’s worldview, perspectives and future. Unless we take control of our own conditioning in our adult lives and use it positively, some negative belief systems can cause a person to be stuck or create negative cycles in their lives. Positive parenting is crucial in developing a successful adult’s belief systems that affects all areas of his or her life.

Watch the video of the interview here : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QTMatSLEjvk

Add a comment March 8, 2013

Would one leg want to break the other ?

We have ONE body. Every part of our bodies…our hands, legs, eyes, mouth, ears all work together to fulfill whatever purpose we intend them to do, go, see, say and hear. When each part is not acting in tandem, we become misaligned, confused and will be in a state of chaos and confusion. One leg does not try to break the other leg just so that it can have more recognition. If we ALL see each other as ONE..having to fulfill a common purpose and to serve our Creator and all in the Universe, would we want to hurt and kill off one another just for recognition, ego and to perceive that we have more than others ? No…we are all in this together. Hurting another is just hurting yourself. Spread LOVE & RESPECT by BEING LOVE & RESPECT. 

Add a comment March 7, 2013

Lift that weight on your shoulders !

What a lift of that weight on your shoulders when you learn to understand people and learn from what they see from their perspectives. That weight and frustration you go through is merely you being frustrated as to why others are the way they are and why they cannot be more like you. Wow ! How selfish is that ! God made us all different and no one is born better than another in HIS eyes. So why do we put value on people based on our own perspectives? Let us all make an effort to learn and understand people especially those we may not like. So have a LOVING Sunday everyone ! ♥

Add a comment March 4, 2013

Pray not just for wealth…Pray that you will meet people who may need from your wealth.

Prophet Muhammad s.a.w encouraged us to give charity to the “miskeen”…”The miskeen (poor) is not one who goes around begging from people, who is given a date or two or a morsel or two. Rather the miskeen is the one who does not have the means of independence, but no one is aware of him so they do not give him charity, and he does not go and beg from people” – (from Hadith Bukhari and Muslim)…I am glad to personally know a (very!) wealthy woman who does what our prophet did. She shared with me about the importance of praying also to ask who we can help. She is an amazing woman who encouraged me to always ask Allah for who I can give charity to and help – people who really need assistance…and they are not asking. She says she is grateful every time she gets calls from people who help her identify those who are struggling and she would go to them if she is able to or pass the money to the person who contacted her. She also advised me to not worry about the money. She said the money will just flow through you enough for you and the person you were praying for. Have faith in the Laws…wow. Something to reflect on. Jumaat Mubarak and remember to spread LOVE & RESPECT !

2 comments February 15, 2013

Be Grateful For Your Pains

I had broken relationships and experienced a broken heart many times, that is why I know the importance of keeping good relationships. I had felt sadness and disappointments, that is why I aim to be positive all the time. I have been through personal financial disasters and being broke, that is why I know the importance of being financially independent. I had felt lost, so I know why I need to be aware. I have felt unloved and disrespected, that is why I spread LOVE & RESPECT. I am grateful for the pains in my life as I know what is important and needs to be done. Be grateful for your pains…and then go spread LOVE & RESPECT ! ❤

Add a comment February 11, 2013

TO ALL WEIRDOS WHO SHOW AND GIVE LOVE…

In a world where there isn’t enough LOVE, people who show LOVE and give LOVE are called “weirdos”, and their sincere intentions are often questioned and judged. People are so used to seeing anger, name calling, hate and conflict that LOVE is not comprehended. I am calling out to all the weirdos to step up and SPREAD LOVE & RESPECT. Be not afraid of spreading what is TRUTH and in line with the laws of the Universe as God intended. Spread LOVE & PEACE and reach out to the hurting people in need of LOVE. You will recognise them as they are the ones who hurt others, hurt you and hurting themselves.

3 comments January 22, 2013